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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Well, the thread was simply why we don't get along despite our similar planet placements.My boyfriend was taken aback and backed away but he's not the type to tell someone off. Once she asked me if she could hug my boyfriend and when I ignored her, she tried to do it but my boyfriend backed away. Her behaviour tells me she's doing this on purpose. She isn't really interested in my boyfriend per se because she does that with every guy. A friend who knows her well says that she became such a flirt after breaking up with her long-term boyfriend and she esp loves to stir **** between couples so I guess I'm not the only "victim".
well that's easy, moon sign can change a lot to begin with, so can ascendant, and the things you have in common could easily aid in things that drive you apart
i have a virgo sun, but i dont generally spend time with anyone who has virgo in their chart
when i do meet people with virgo in their charts we can have great conversations and enjoy each other's company but we also will leave each other alone a lot
i can think of people who i would say i love who i know have love for me with virgo placements, but when it comes down to the day to day we arent really in each other's lives and get all of our deep connecting out in those moments
the people im drawn to instead who are in my life are often scorpio (i only have pluto here) sag (uranus and saturn are here so nothing personal) or aquarius (no planets or points there) because like i said before what we like and who were are arent typically exactly the same
and sometimes where we're similar to others can be the worst points of friction particularly when there's minor differences
2 people can be equally stubborn and see that as a good trait for themselves, but they'll have a hell of a time getting much of anywhere when they disagree if theyre prone to
i assumed from your initial wording this was a consistent repeated issue with her and your bf rather than something that happened once and then almost happened another time
not defending that sort of behavior, it's still not ok, i'm just trying to build a clear picture
either way though it comes back to being similar not always being good and things that can look like minor differences being the sort of thing that can ultimately alter everything
moon in particular is a big one, it's your emotional responses (in vedic your moon nakshatra and your ascendant nakshatra are more important, this is true in western as far as sign goes too as your ascendant basically sets your life path and your moon is far more personal to who you are than a sign you share with everyone born in that same month colors everything very differently) and it can change a lot of angles in a chart too, aspects also matter
i know a guy whose birthday is exactly a day before my fiancee's and his moon and his ascendant are both in pisces (her ascendant is aquarius her moon is aries), my sun falls almost exactly on his descendant funny enough
anyway, i rub him the wrong way and he frequently alternated between trying to fight with me and pick me apart to being friendly and helpful but ultimately we couldnt actually be friends
my fiancee on the other hand ive been with her 14 years and we were friends for about 20
they have things in common, but ultimately their differences were where the major issues were and the things that they have in commom made him unbearable